What's the point of talking to people?

"MrPseudonym" (mrpseudonym) 11/19/2014 at 19:41 • Filed to: Good Morning Bad Night

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It always seems that when you're at your lowest point, nobody offers you any sort of help.

Fuck life. I guess it's one of those days for me. I'll just get out of here before I make a mess of myself.

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4muddyfeet - bare knuckle with an EZ30 > MrPseudonym 11/19/2014 at 19:42

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Oppo listens - chin up

AthomSfere > MrPseudonym 11/19/2014 at 19:46

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Gotta say, I think all Oppo request get fulfilled or at least commented ;)

PS9 > MrPseudonym 11/19/2014 at 19:52

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You: Hey, you wanna have sex?
Her: Sure!

The above conversation is impossible if you refuse to talk to people.

All Motor Is Best Motor > PS9 11/19/2014 at 20:18

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10/10

briannutter1 > MrPseudonym 11/19/2014 at 20:31

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here to offer no help. Good luck getting through it though. What's up? Keep it brief as I have problems of my own to attend to :)

orcim > MrPseudonym 11/20/2014 at 02:42

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Uhm, I have to make a point. It's not personal and it doesn't include anything other than what you said (which I acknowledge includes *much* you didn't say, so take this with a grain of salt. Throw it out if it's totally distasteful.)

>It always seems that when you're at your lowest point, nobody offers you any sort of help.

Let me reword that: "It always seems that when you're at your lowest point *and showing it*, nobody offers you any sort of help *because they can't figure out how to do it.* Where the hell do people get any training in dealing with low points in life? None from what I can determine.

Time and again over my life, I've been pushed to the wall. And feeling it. But the so-called 'public' can't handle my energy. Too intense. True friends that could handle that situation I count on one hand but they come and go just as I do for others as I change so sometimes there's some and sometimes there's none.

I've found, and your mileage may vary, that people have limits, even close people that don't go into that "true friend" status, that are around me. If I exceed those limits, they can't handle the energy and there's no support.

So I put on, not the Happy Face, but the 'I'm pushing through it' face, and that seems to engage the people that are currently around me. But that translates to me having a positive outlook or that the people 'see' me being able to have a positive outlook, even when I don't feel like it at all. It's a strategy, absolutely. But it's been effective, for me. It may not apply to you, but I will say this: imagining you have more positive power than you really do, is powerful.

MrPseudonym > orcim 11/21/2014 at 11:40

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Thanks for the advice, man. I appreciate it.

MrPseudonym > PS9 11/21/2014 at 11:41

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Hahaha! Nice.